How Defense Mechanisms Perpetuate Heartbreak

#defensemechanisms, #heartbreak The brain is wired to avoid pain, and as such, your defense mechanisms are some of the most insidious programs that can negatively impact your relationships.  These are programs that protect us from getting hurt. There are three types of defense mechanisms that women use in relating to men. First is the Man Hater. These women use hostility towards men to protect themselves. They use blanket statements like, “All men cheat,” “Chivalry is dead,”